Slayers, Everyone of us - How one girl in all the world showed us how to hold on… From the Podcast Buffering the Vampire Slayer - hosts Kristin Russo and Jenny Owens Youngs

Stacey Irving • April 7, 2025

I loved Buffy!!!! 

I just finished Slayers, Everyone of us - How one girl in all the world showed us how to hold on… From the Podcast Buffering the Vampire Slayer - hosts Kristin Russo and Jenny Owens Youngs.

This is why, going in blind on a book, sometimes… doesn’t go well for me. I thought this book was going to be about them pulling apart and discussing buffy the vampire slayer and yeah… No, that's totally not what it's about.

Both the hosts used to be together and broke up.. They did the podcast together on their shared love of buffy and maybe the podcast has more Buffy the vampire slayer in it but this book was pretty much political. The way they felt when Trump was inaugurated the first time… The fears they had for what that meant for the LGBTQ community. 

It’s really hard to rate a book that didn’t match the expectations of the book. It was literally a memoir about a marriage, a divorce, and a podcast about Buffy the Vampire Slayer with both people writing it together. I definitely am not the target audience because I wanted more buffy but If I was a listener… I think this book had some really great aspects about it and you could see how much thought they put into building a podcast from scratch. One of the hosts on the audio didn’t feel like they were as connected, I think it was Jenny that felt like she didn’t really want to be there… 

What was my takeaway? That they made the podcast work even after the split and are still friends and that's kinda beautiful. They still support each other, just in a different way and for that, I am glad I listened and read the book. I did immersion reading on this one. First time ever… It was a new experience but I want to thank the hosts and @stmartinspress for including me in this experience.

I will be checking out the podcast now and maybe I will come back to the book once I get to know Jenny and Kristin on a new level.

3.5 stars

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By Stacey Irving April 16, 2025
Why memoirs are better as audiobooks and why they should be read by the author… I kept seeing The Third Gilmore Girl on booksta and I knew, I just knew I had to get the audio version as Kelly bishop **FAN MYSELF** narrates it herself. Honestly She was my favorite character on Gilmore Girls.. She was no nonsense, snarky and perfect!! My favorite quote Richard says… Only prostitutes have two glasses of wine at lunch!” to which Emily retorts… “Well, then buy me a boa and drive me to Reno because I am open for business!” She repeats the quote in the audiobook. I was transported right back to that episode and I laughed so hard I had to pause the book while I wiped the tears from my eyes. Believe it or not, Kelly Bishop doesn’t spend a lot of time in the book on Gilmore girls or the iconic dirty dancing. Her life was much more than that. She was a dancer and a stage star who had no acting classes but she was a super fast learner and she still carved the kind of career on the small screen that most actors can only dream of. Her role as Emily will always be a shining beacon… An iconic mastadon of epic proportions. She never had kids of her own which she does not regret, loves animals and found her soulmate later in her life.. And they had a beautifully supportive relationship, losing him set a really heartbreaking tone at the end of the book and I could hear the grief in her voice. I felt like I was getting a warm hug hearing her voice as she weaves her story. A time of ups and downs but ultimately she is eternally grateful for the life she has lived. I truly believe that audiobooks are the piece de resistance when it comes to memoirs because not only can you hear their voice and they tell you their story, you can feel the emotions it is bringing to the surface for them… I will say that I firmly believe that Kelly Bishop’s memoir is excellent in any format you choose but do yourself a favor and grab the audio because for a few hours… you will feel like a gilmore girl too. 4.5 stars #gilmoregirls #kellybishop #thethirdgilmoregirl #emilygilmore #memoir #kellybishopmemoir #booktok #booktalk #bookishpodcast #bookalorian #bookreview #bookreviewer #booktube
By Stacey Irving April 15, 2025
I just finished The Deathly Grimm by Kathryn Purdie and here are my musings. Genre - YA Fantasy Date of Release - March 25th 2025 Publisher - @wednesdaybooks Making it home after surviving the Forest Grimm but they aren’t safe.. They didn’t completely break the curse and what had gotten better has now gotten worse. Clara is having visions of the past and the only way to save the village is for her and Axel to go back into the forest but if they don’t undo the curse… They may not have a home to go back to. I feel like this one was better than the first but only just! The foundation was laid and it was good! You really should read book 1 first because it literally picks up right where it left off and yes, you could read it and it would make sense, there are things that you will miss without it. There was a lot more action in this book and it had a really solid footing to kick off from. Again, I had issues with the pacing. I don’t know… Maybe it's just the way the author writes her books but it was a bit slow and inconsistent for me. I actually bet the duology were phenomenal audiobooks. I liked how the story ended… It was definitely a wild ride to the finish. I loved how the characters all rounded out and I was really happy with the way it all turned out. I liked how it all turned out and I gave it an enthusiastic 4.5 stars!! Thank you for my gifted copy #thedeathlygrimm #kathrynpurdie #TheForestGrimmduology #fantasyduology #yabook #yafantasy #fairytaleretelling #bookalorian #booklover #bookishblogger #bookblogging #readervlog #wednesdaybooks #readreadread #booktok #bookreel #bookishreel #bookstagrammer #canadianbookstagram #bookmerchstore
By Stacey Irving April 14, 2025
I just finished The Forest Grimm by Kathryn Purdie and here are my musings. Genre - YA Fantasy Date of Release - September 19, 2023 Publisher - @wednesdaybooks - Author @kathrynpurdie Clara knows the cards are right but it doesn’t stop her making a dangerous journey into forest grimm to retrieve a magical book. The book of fortunes can reverse the curse on the village and save her mother. The forest took the book after someone took the life of another person and it’s up to Clara and her friend Axel to undo the dangerous magic but the forest is alive with dangerous people who do not remember who they really are.. Losing their minds is not the only concern for the duo… Well I can honestly say I was not expecting this!! People from the village went missing… Lost their minds and have taken on the persona of our fairy fairytale characters but wait… there's more… They are bloodthirsty little creatures… I was blown away with the creativity of this story especially as a lot of it is borrowed from content but it was fresh and exciting. I had the biggest problem with the pacing. I would have liked the story to move a little faster. There was so much going on! The plot twists were a little predictable but I kinda liked that. I didn’t need the insane whiplash! I did feel the repetitiveness of the fact Clara had a disability but it was just kind of repeated and people checking in on her instead of making it an active part of the story did seem redundant. I liked it overall though and I gave it a resounding 4 stars!! Thank you for my gifted copy and I am sooo glad I have the next installment lined up! #theforestgrimm #kathrynpurdie #TheForestGrimmduology #fantasyduology #yabook #yafantasy #fairytaleretelling #bookalorian #booklover #bookishblogger #bookblogging #readervlog #wednesdaybooks #readreadread #booktok #bookreel #bookishreel #bookstagrammer #canadianbookstagram #bookmerchstore
By Stacey Irving April 14, 2025
I just finished Death at a Highland Wedding by Kelley Armstrong and here are my musings. Book 4 in the Rip through time Series. Genre - Historical Mystery Date of Release - May 20th 2025 Publisher - @minotaur_books Mallory is thriving in the past… After slipping back 150 years in the past into a maids body… She has carved a decent life for herself as assistant to the undertaker DR Gray and Detective McCreadie. The trio are on the way to McCreadies sister's wedding in the highlands…Something is very off when they arrive and when one of the guests turns up murdered… They must race against the clock to uncover the killer before another guest turns up dead. I was super curious about the audio of this series so I thankfully got a copy of this one to read and an audio to fully submerge myself into their world. The audio was amazing!! The narration was spot on!! Mallory is one of my favorite FMCs. Being a detective in her time, she has skills that haven’t even been invented yet and she finds a way to become useful to the police in the only way a woman can.. Under the protection of men. They know she's from the future and they have a perfect dynamic. It was a nice change of pace getting out of the city and into the country. It gave the series a new dimension… I loved every second of it. I love how all the characters work together and I am so invested in this series that I am already thirsting for the next installment. I love how everyone is kind of on the fringe of society and they couldn't care less! They all live their lives unapologetically and I am here all day for that! I have to admit, I am so worried that Mallory will end up back in the future and never make it back to Duncan.. I hope that does not happen… Kelley Armstrong has a beautiful writing style and you will be drawn right into this series! Now you can read it as a standalone book but knowing their backstories will give you a better feel for the story. 4.5 stars Thank you for my gifted copy - Minotaur books and @netgalley for the audio and ebook. #deathatahighlandwedding #kelleyarmstong #aripthroughtime #historicalmystery #bookseries #bookreview #bookblogger #bookishreview #bookstababe #bookalorian #lionessofliteracy #bookishpodcast #bookinfluencer
By Stacey Irving April 11, 2025
I just finished The Love Haters by Katherine Center and here are my thoughts. Katie has gotten herself between a rock and a hard place.. they are laying people off at work but she’s been given a lifeline.. to do the video productive of hutch.. a coast guard.. trouble is she lied about being able to swim. She didn’t go down there expecting to feel things but they are both closed off from love and she is starting to fall back in love with herself. Genre - Contemporary Romance Date of Release - May 20th 2025 Publisher - @stmartinpress Format - audio and hardcover and the narration was amazing! There is something you should know about Katherine’s books is that she always puts a moral in there and it will resonate with you. It’s always more than just a romance. It’s a book of self discovery too. I loved the characters. Katie is so relatable. All the characters are perfect! I was sucked right into Hutch’s world and I didn’t want to leave. The book was beautifully written and the story just flowed. It gave me all the feels! It made me laugh, it made my eyes well with tears. It had some really tender moments and I was fully invested in the outcome. The ending was brilliant too. You won’t be sorry for picking up this book! If you love heartwarming rom-coms, grab this one next month! 5 stars Thank you St Martin’s press and @netgalley for my gifted copies #thelovehaters #katherinecenter #romcom #bookreview #igbooks #igreader #bookish #smpinfluencer #bookishreel #bookalorian #booksbooksbooks #romancereader #booklove #readersofig #readingallday
By Stacey Irving April 10, 2025
I just finished Good Bad Mother by Anya Mora and here are my musings. Amelia Sterling has it all. The perfect husband, the amazing house and a cute little baby she adores… It doesn’t matter if her in-laws look down on her… That’s the least of her worries… Her past is coming back to bite her in the butt and keeping it buried is getting harder by the minute. It was slow… Like really slow. I thought the plot was super clever and there was some real excellence in the writing.. BUT… It was repetitive. I felt likeI could have been listening to the same chapter every 4 chapters… She was literally spiralling over her past and we didn’t really seem to get anywhere. I couldn’t connect with any of the characters because they were all jerks It was a real shame because the narration was good and the story was good. I just think more could have been done had all the repetitiveness had been eradicated and I still don’t understand what was up with her husband…. I don’t want to spoil it but WTAF. Having said that, I did actually enjoy the book. 3.75 stars Thank you @netgalley and @bookouture for my gifted ALC #thrillereader #mysteryreader #mysterybook #thrillerbook #bookouture #netgalley #audiobookreader #audiobookreviews #bookalorian #audiobooks #audiobooklover #bookinfluencer #readingallday #libbyreader #fictionaddiction #psychologicalthriller #bookishreviews #bookblog #lionessofliteracy #bookblogger #thequeensofcrime #goodbadmother
By Stacey Irving April 9, 2025
I just finished The Queens of Crime by Marie Benedict and here are my thoughts. It’s 1930 and 5 of the greatest women crime writers want their props… So they decide to solve an actual murder…It’s got all the makings of a lock door mystery and the police are stumped! So the author takes 5 of the most notable women crime fiction writers of the 30s…Dorothy L. Sayers, Agatha Christie, Ngaio Marsh, Margery Allingham and Baroness Emma Orczy and makes one of the most exciting mystery novels I have read in a long time! It was exhilarating. May Daniels, a nurse, is found murdered but no one saw her leave a bathroom with one exit.. I was enthralled!! It was pretty well paced for a mystery too! The plot was amazing and centered around the real life Detection club that included all 5 of these crime writers! I went down a rabbit hole about it. The writing was quite excellent and the narrator did a super amazing job of bringing these epic women to life for me. 4 stars Thank you @netgalley for my gifted ALC #thrillereader #mysteryreader #mysterybook #thrillerbook #bookouture #netgalley #audiobookreader #audiobookreviews #bookalorian #audiobooks #audiobooklover #bookinfluencer #readingallday #libbyreader #fictionaddiction #psychologicalthriller #bookishreviews #bookblog #lionessofliteracy #bookblogger #thequeensofcrime #goodbadmother
By Stacey Irving April 8, 2025
I just finished Shaedes of Power by Jenny Grimes and here are my musings! Genre - Romantasy Date of Release - March 11th 2025 Publisher - Aethon Books Opal doesn’t expect things to turn out the way they do.. she witnesses a human being attacked by a beast from the shadowlands in the human realm and she takes him with her to the faerie realm. She expects a lot of backlash as a virtual outcast but nothing could have prepared her for taking one of the seats her parents once held… and the prince of darkness wants to come out of the shadows and he isn’t above kidnapping to get his own way. If you are looking for a faerie series that has world building in spades??? This.. is.. it. I was blown away with the amount of detail that went into the faerie world and the shadowlands. Honestly it was impressive. How does an author fit in a solid starting storyline, world building and set you up with a cast of characters without missing anything? Ask Jenny Grimes because she managed to keep the perfect balance and did it while holding a decent pace. It’s a tad annoying. I have nothing to criticize and I always have something critical to say. I massively enjoyed this story and I know if you like fantasy reads.. you will too! 4.5 stars! Thank you to @jennygrimes.author for My gifted copy! Book 2 is out in June! #shaedesofpower #jennygrimes #fantasy #fantasybook #fantasyreader #indieauthor #aethonbooks #bookreview #booklover #bookishreader #bookalorian #igbooks #goodreads #paperbackreader #booklovercommunity
By Stacey Irving April 8, 2025
I just finished Splinter Effect by Andrew Ludington and here are my thoughts. Firstly, the audiobook was a tad bland but I did get used to it after a while and got sucked in. We are introduced to Rabbit Ward… A time traveling Archaeologist who has gone into the past to find a long lost menorah (candelabrum used in Jewish worship) from Ancient Rome. Things couldn’t have gone more wrong from the second he arrives and when a rival, Helen arrives to find the very same item… He knows there's a mole in his organization… Yet the only way to find the Menorah might be to work with the very person who is here to steal from him… Genre - Time Travel - Science Fiction Date of Release - March 18th 2025 Publisher - @minotaur_books It was an interesting book. It was a tad monotonal but I think that was done on purpose. Rabbit is very rigid and I think the tone of the book was to match him. I didn’t much care for that but I did get used to it. The plot is insane!!! I loved the storyline! The author did a phenomenal job of creating this story and I couldn’t find a hole in it. Not one plot hole… That right there is incredible because the story has a ton going on and most of the time there is something in a book that doesn’t fit or get explained.. Not here so bravo! I liked Rabbit ok. I think he was growing on me towards the end of the book but I did love Helen! I know I'm not supposed to have warm feelings for the “bad guy” but I couldn’t help it. I am really glad this is book 1 and it’s a debut novel so honestly, if this is the level the author is already writing at… I am excited to see what comes next. I adored all the sights of Rome and all the wonderful backstory delivered in a really clever way. Honestly the only things I can say about the book is the tone was a tad off for me and it could have had a slightly faster pace but these things are like a grain of rice compared to how excellent this book is. 4.5 stars! I know you are looking at the genre and thinking… I don’t read sci-fi… It’s really so much more than that! It’s a Historical Fiction, Adventure, Mystery Thriller so give it a go! Thank you to Minotaur books for my gifted hardcover and @netgalley for my ALC! #splintereffect #andrewludington #scifi #historicalfiction #mysterythriller #scifiread #scifireader #minotaurbooks #alc #audiobookreader #netgalley #bookinfluencer #booksbooksbooks #booktok #booktuber #bookishpodcaster #bookalorian
By Stacey Irving April 7, 2025
I just finished A Killing Cold by Kate Alice Marshall and here are my musings. Theo and Connor are excited for their future and when Connor brings Theo to his family's winter retreat… She is a little apprehensive. It’s only been 6 months and the threatening messages haven't dissuaded her either but there is something eerily familiar about the place… A place she should never have seen but then why is there a photo of herself as a child hidden in a part of the retreat no one is called to go into anymore? The whole story was a tad far fetched but I couldn’t help getting sucked right in. It was twisty and turning and it was totally gripping! The narration was really well done and I felt absolutely connected and invested in the story… Downside? The ending. If you can suspend your disbelief… You will likely enjoy the heck out of it but… I still just can’t with Connor. I feel like the jokes on me. The writing was amazing and I wish the ending had gone a different way, a better way of tying it all together because all the elements were there. I also don’t care much for snow stuff so when I reread it… I will read in the summer haha. 4 stars Thank you @netgalley for my gifted ALC Check out my bookish podcast @youtube.com/@thewrightkindofbooktalk #netgalley #audiobooks #audiobooklover #bookinfluencer #bookalorian #readingallday #libbyreader #thedollhouseacademy #thrillerreader #fictionaddiction #psychologicalthrilleer #bookishreviews #bookblog #lionessofliteracy #bookblogger #thekillingcold
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